ENTJ (Commander/Leader Type) and Romance

ENTJ (Leader type)And I will explain love.

ENTJ and romance

The following is a quote (with some modifications) from "Let's Look at the World from the Perspective of MBTI Personality Type Theory" (website no longer exists).

I'm attracted to sexy and sporty physiques.

Normally, they may not show their emotions outwardly and rarely empathize or sympathize with others. However, once they become interested in someone of the opposite sex, they may fall intensely in love and actively pursue them.

Nevertheless, they still struggle with expressing emotions and showing empathy, which can make them appear somewhat awkward to others, and their expressions of affection can sometimes be one-sided.

Actually, I don't really like anything that's too effeminate.

You will likely get along well with people who have a firm attitude, or those who are considerate of others but remain calm inside.

It depends on whether the other person can appreciate the ENTJ's objective and rational perspective, as well as their somewhat rough but assertive attitude, as positive traits.

You can work together to accomplish tasks, or deepen your close relationship by enjoying sports and leisure activities together.

To reaffirm the bond in a romantic relationship, it's important to create time to experience and act together in various ways.

By doing so, you will prioritize the person you feel affection for, even if it means putting everything else aside, and you will genuinely try to help them when they are in trouble.

If they do get married, they will strive to fulfill their responsibilities with strength and determination for the stability and prosperity of their family.

Both ENTJs, male and female, tend to seek employment and work to earn an income. Of course, this may not be the case if they can quickly accumulate wealth.

However, since we consider the home to be an important foundation, we naturally want to keep it efficiently organized and functional.

ENTJs' efficient planning skills and their tendency to identify areas for improvement and drive change may also apply to their home life. They may want to meticulously and systematically complete household chores. Alternatively, if they believe it would be more efficient to hire a housekeeper and focus on their work, they might do so.

If I have children, I want to give them a proper education.

I hope that I can naturally share these values with my spouse.

If you become so engrossed in your work that you neglect your family, you may not gain your spouse's understanding, which could lead to problems.

To prevent such situations, it's important to set aside time for families to relax together and deepen their understanding of each other.

ENTJs actively approach people they deem suitable and may not be too concerned about compatibility, but here are some types that are a good match for them.

They are in a dual relationship.ISFJ(Parent type) or, they are in a relationship that becomes more active.ESFP(Optimistic type) and are in a mirror image relationship. INTP(Researcher type) Since this indicates a good compatibility, please keep it in mind. However, finding an INTP might be difficult.

End of quote from "Let's Look at the World from the Perspective of MBTI Personality Type Theory" (website no longer exists) (partially modified)

Advice for those dating an ENTJ

ENTJs prioritize themselves above all else, believing they shouldn't waste time devoting themselves to others' lives. Because of this, they often appear very domineering in romantic relationships. They prefer to be pursued rather than pursue themselves. ENTJs are attracted to people who are devoted to them. However, their selfishness can sometimes make you question whether they truly love you.

Because they struggle to deal with emotions, they may sometimes appear insensitive to the feelings of others. However, this doesn't mean that ENTJs lack emotions; it simply means they are unable to express their feelings unless they are in a comfortable environment.

ENTJs are very keen to maintain smooth relationships and are always looking for ways to improve them. If you have problems with your ENTJ partner, talk about them frankly and honestly rather than hiding the issue. Your partner wants to hear how you actually feel, not just guess at your feelings.

For an ENTJ, the end of a romantic relationship means...

ENTJs clearly state that a relationship ends when all learning opportunities within the relationship have ended or passed by.

They feel it's time to move on to the next stage. In situations like this, ENTJs can sometimes be perceived as "cold people lacking compassion, affection, or attachment" because they discuss and debate the breakdown of the relationship from a third-party perspective.

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