Parent-child relationships between judging types (J type) and perceiving types (P type)

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Example) ESTJ(Parent) <--Opposite--> INFP(child)

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More than any other combination,Ｊ(Normative) type andＰThe differences in (flexible) types can bring unexpected joy, but they can also be a source of intense frustration.

Let's start by looking at the joy aspect.

ＰFrom the perspective of the parent of the type,ＪI think that children of this type are "well-behaved" and are sure to be on the fast track to success.

“"Put away your toys, do your homework properly, and come home on time."”

these areＰIt's something that I wish I could be, but I know it's absolutely impossible.

ＪFrom the perspective of the parent of the type,ＰChildren of this type appear carefree and playful. Moreover, they are not unnecessarily troubled by the "crises" that occur in daily family life, and they are able to overcome the emotional wounds that are constantly experienced as they "grow up."

ＪFrom a personality standpoint, this type of person seems enviably stress-free.

However, it wasn't all good.Ｊtype andＰDue to their differing personalities, people with different body types may clash with each other throughout their lives.

ＪThe parent of the type is,ＰChildren of this type seem incapable of "doing things properly," and parents are constantly frustrated by their child's "unmanageable" personality.

No matter how hard parents try to discipline their children,ＰIt seems like kids of that type are always a day behind or a dollar short.

"Mom, I forgot to tell you, but we have a class party, so we need one or two cupcakes tomorrow morning."

"Dad, do you need the car tonight? I forgot to tell you, but I have an important date."

"It's not messy. Everything on the desk is something I need."

ＰHaving a child of the typeIFJParents with an introverted, emotional, and normative personality type often end up raising children who are far from "flawless," and they blame themselves, feeling ashamed as parents.

Needless to say, such attitudes, whether expressed verbally or not, can have an unfavorable impact on a child's self-esteem.

Also,ETJParents who are extroverted, thinking, and normative tend to express these frustrations openly, creating a "new recruit training camp" atmosphere where they try to force any slightly different child into a mold.
That would cause trouble for everyone, including the other children who have to live in that environment.

　ＪParents of the typeＰChildren of this type are simply acting in accordance with their own personality, but because they don't try to restrain themselves, their inherent tendencies become increasingly stubborn.

vice versa,ＰParent of typeＪWhat about children of that type?

ＰThe parent of the type is,ＪSome believe that children of this type are stubborn and inflexible because they are selfish.

I think "My Way" is this child's theme song, and as a poor parent, I feel like all I can do is "pander" to him (parents of children who are told by others that they are not properly disciplined)Ｐ(There is a high probability that it is of that type.)

In everyday lifeＪChildren of this type often say things like this.

"That's not the right way to do it. This is how it's supposed to be done."

"I need an answer right now."

"Who cleaned my room? Everything had its designated place."

"You said we were having chicken tonight. Why did you change the menu?"

If I had to say, generally speaking...ＰParents of this type seem to find it easier to fulfill the role of "parent."

ＪParents of this type try to "forcibly eliminate" the "unexpected things" that come with having children by being even stricter.

on the other hand,ＰParents of this type have childrenＪWhether it's a type or notＰRegardless of the opponent's style, he's good at dodging and avoiding their attacks.

However,ＰIt's not that the parent of the type is diverting attention from the problem. Above all,ＰThis type of parent tends to think it's their fault if their child doesn't behave properly.