How to become an attractive husband or wife, based on your personality type (16 types)

INFP, ESTP, etc.How to become an attractive husband or wife, according to your personality type.This explains it.

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The persuasive ENFJ type... accept opposing viewpoints.

ENFJ (Collaborator Type)They usually assume the other person completely agrees.
However, if the other person raises even the slightest, perfectly normal question, they take it as outright opposition and are deeply hurt.
Give the other party room to object.

Optimistic ENFP type... Let's face the problems we are currently facing.

ENFP (Reformer type)When an unpleasant problem arises, they avoid confronting it directly and instead try to manipulate both themselves and the other person into believing it's something more enjoyable.
Don't rush into fantasizing or talking about the future; focus on solving the problems you're facing right now.

A cynical ENTJ type... Let's use kind words.

ENTJ (Leader type)Like the ESTJ type, they tend to show affection in ways that contradict their true feelings, but not in a masculine way; instead, they express it through sarcastic words.
Instead of using harsh words, try to speak with sincere and kind words.

ENTPs are ingenious... Let's just do it.

ENTP (Inventor Type)They know they have to do the little chores around the house, but instead of actually doing them, they try to devise a system to get them done.
When presented with unfinished work, I try to impress them by continuing to work on it indefinitely.
Instead of clinging to the system you've devised, just do what needs to be done right now.

ESFJ types value cooperation... don't show your anger.

ESFJ (Sociable Type)The desire to avoid stirring up trouble means not confronting the problem head-on and hiding inconvenient facts.
Showing anger doesn't necessarily mean the relationship will end. Don't be afraid to argue.

A generous ESFP type... let's try not to go off track.

ESFP (Optimist type)While they are very good at accommodating the demands of many people at once, this often leads to digressions, preventing them from meeting the "regular" demands of others.

A hard-boiled ESTJ type... Let's be honest.

ESTJ (Responsible type)He likes to show affection in a "manly" way.
Common examples include slapping someone on the back or saying something that deliberately offends them.
Just avoid doing things that contradict your feelings, and simply say, "I love you."

The unpredictable ESTP type... I should try not to act on impulse.

ESTP (Adventurer type)This type of person enjoys exciting, unexpected, and varied experiences, but their partner may not necessarily find that comfortable.
We should focus more on "establishing clear rules for things."
Sometimes it's about being punctual, enduring boring things, cherishing family traditions, and not changing the way things have always been done.

INFJ types only know themselves... Let's show it through our actions.

INFJ (Empathy Type)He is very perceptive of other people's feelings.
I rarely feel the need to have things explained to me every single time.
I don't always explain myself either. I know very well that the other person wants me to be kind to them or say "I love you," but I'm not good at being kind, so I just stay silent.
Act proactively not only when you feel like it, but also when the other person wants you to do so.

INFP types tend to leave things to others... Try to be more proactive in offering advice.

INFP (Psychologist type)They are gifted with the ability to help people understand their own feelings and encourage them to have more confidence in themselves, but they tend to think that they are no use.
Don't hesitate to offer advice, comfort, or acknowledge the good qualities of others.

An independent and self-reliant INTJ type... I'll lend them a hand.

INTJ (Strategist type)While it's important to be highly independent and self-reliant, one shouldn't expect the same from others.
I will not hesitate to offer my help.
Until you learn to swim, don't just stand by and watch someone drown three times.

INTPs tend to be argumentative... Try to express your feelings more honestly.

INTP (Researcher Type)If you constantly think about what words to use to express your affection, you might end up failing to convey what you're trying to say to the other person.
It's not just about understanding love, but about honestly expressing the fact that you feel it.

Loyal ISFJ type... try to be more assertive.

ISFJ (Parental Type)Making them angry is like chewing on cotton candy—it's not challenging at all, and it's not constructive for either party.
No matter what, I need to be more assertive and not be bound by a sense of obligation.

An artistic ISFP type... Let's try saying it out loud.

ISFP (Artist type)She thinks chatting is pointless, so she tries to express her affection in tangible ways, such as with gifts, but occasionally she will try to express her affection in writing or words.
Even just adding a "I love you" message to a gift is enough.

Stubborn and taciturn ISTJ type... Let's stop being so contrary.

ISTJ (Hardworking Type)They tend not to praise good deeds.
Because you can tell the other person is expecting to be praised.
However, whether it's a big thing or a small thing, you should always make an effort to be kind and praise them with words.
Make it a habit to say "I love you" at least once a week. It's one of your obligations to your partner.

A versatile ISTP type... let's try something outrageous!

ISTP (Practitioner type)Even when they come up with interesting ideas for expressing affection, they dismiss them as impractical, silly, or outlandish, and end up abandoning them.
But instead of overthinking things, sometimes just try it and act according to your feelings of love.