Parent-child relationships between thinking types (T-type) and feeling types (F-type)

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Example) ESTJ (Parent) <-- Opposite --> INFP (child)

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Parent-child relationship strategies

According to traditional divisions of roles, men (fathers and sons) are supposed to make objective decisions, while women (mothers and daughters) are supposed to uphold subjective values.
If personality types and genders match, parent-child problems will be significantly reduced; however, if they do not match, the dilemmas between parents and children will increase.
The resulting problems linger, leading to prolonged confusion about roles and causing parents to unnecessarily worry about perfectly normal behaviors in their child.
for example,Ｔ(Thinking) type fatherＦI'm disappointed that my emotionally driven son doesn't seem interested in carrying on his parents' legacy.
ＦMy son is into art and music (specifically the flute rather than the drums).ＦThey prefer certain types of activities and are easily hurt if their family or friends oppose them.
A father may think his son won't be able to "succeed" in the volatile world of life, but in reality, his son may possess the sensitivity and talent necessary to succeed in that world.
When a father forces his son to do things that are considered "manly," the son may end up failing in areas where he lacks talent.
Also, the motherＦMy daughterＴProblems also arise with types.
From any angleＦA mother of this type is always attentive to what her family needs.
However,ＴNot only is the daughter of that type unsuitable for such a role, but she's also completely incapable of showing that kind of consideration.
To make matters worse, she not only begins to feel that she is not feminine, but also struggles with the guilt her mother constantly imposes on her by saying that she is "not like other girls."
ＴImagine the stress a mother must feel when her daughter brings home a frog because she wants to dissect it for her studies, or when she chooses physics and math at school and avoids home economics and Japanese language arts.
ＦThe mother of this type believes that her daughter turned out this way because of her, and she becomes lost in thought, wondering, "Where did I go wrong in raising her?"
In additionＦfather of the typeＴson of the typeＴmother of the typeＦEven the combination of being the daughter of a certain type of character can lead to frustration due to issues related to their roles.
for example,ＦSome fathers of this typeＴLet's say there is a child of this type.
Some children may not only see their father as "kind," but even as a "coward," and feel ashamed that their father isn't a manly figure.