Super-Ego Relationship in 16 Personality Types

Reference: 16 Personality Type Theory (modified)

• ESTJ & ENFJ
• ENFP & ESTP
• ENTJ & ESFJ
• ESFP & ENTP
• ISFJ & INTJ
• INTP & ISFP
• INFJ & ISTJ
• ISTP & INFP

They have a relationship based on mutual respect. They share few psychological commonalities, and there is a significant psychological distance between them; each appears somewhat mysterious and ideal. Initially, they show interest in each other's ways of thinking, feeling, and reactions and behavioral patterns. They exchange opinions positively and share ideas that interest both of them. And then, warm feelings develop.

When there are no shared interests, the atmosphere can become somewhat stiff. Rather than listening, both parties tend to express their own viewpoints. This is because what one person confidently asserts may not be perceived as certain by the other, leading them to express their own opinion and defend themselves.

Each type primarily uses four different psychological functions. Furthermore, the order of thinking, feeling, sensing, and intuition is reversed. They share introversion or extroversion, and judging or perceiving, and their attitudes toward things are similar. However, because the middle two letters of the four letters that make up the type are different, their attributes and temperaments are completely different.

A superego relationship is the relationship that is the exact opposite (a relationship prone to conflict) of a type that is its mirror image. Or, similarly, a superego relationship is the relationship that is the mirror image of a type that is its exact opposite (a relationship prone to conflict). That being said, they are not necessarily incompatible. There is no problem if you understand the key points. These will be explained below.

When two people don't know each other very well, they are attracted to and respect each other, but as their relationship deepens, problems arise.

Even if you think you understand each other well, in daily work and collaborative tasks, doubts may arise as to whether the other person is deliberately making mistakes. Sometimes, one person does the exact opposite of what the other unconsciously expects. It's not always easy to understand the other person's intentions.

You may recall having warm feelings and expecting an intimate relationship in the past, but conflict is inevitable.

Eventually, they both insist on their own righteousness and stubbornly try to impose their values on each other. They begin a fruitless competition to see whose way of thinking, feeling, and perceiving is superior. Even when the other person's perspective is presented, they ignore, suppress, or treat it with contempt.

You need to calm down a bit. If you don't stop and think things through at this point, a breakup is inevitable.

The argument here about determining which side is right is completely pointless. This can be understood by learning about these 16 types and realizing that every perspective has its own meaning and role.

It's necessary to objectively recognize differences and acknowledge the other person's value. Try to think, "That's a valid way of looking at it." You might find unexpected clues there to avoid your own shortcomings. You'll be able to build good relationships while maintaining a certain distance.

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*This compatibility explanation is,16-Type Personality TestThis was created based on the theory of [the subject].