INFJ (Empathy Type)And I will explain about human relationships.
The following is a quote (with some modifications) from "Let's Look at the World from the Perspective of MBTI Personality Type Theory" (website no longer exists).
About INFJ relationships
Extraverted Feeling (Fe)As expected of this type of person, they are humble, considerate of others, and behave appropriately for the situation, so those who see them will likely feel a sense of satisfaction.
They are calm and somewhat mature, but their emotional expression is rich, making it easy to understand what they are feeling.
Spending time with friends and family is enjoyable. While intellectual discussions are fun, it's also good to go outdoors or into the city for a different experience and refresh yourself. A simple walk while chatting quietly can also be a pleasant way to spend time.
The more intellectually stimulating the conversation, the more stimulating it will be. However, even if the conversation isn't intellectually stimulating, we try to match the other person's level and get to know them better.
Because they have a high capacity for empathy and understand others well, they may naturally take on the roles of counselor or advisor.
On the other hand, they need private time and sometimes spend time deeply and continuously thinking about one thing. They may keep their deepest thoughts hidden from everyone except their closest friends.
Even if they harbor strong convictions or firm judgments within themselves, these only surface when truly necessary. Occasionally, they may take a firm stance against those who disregard manners and norms, or against unreliable leaders.
Having keen intuition is good, but it doesn't always reflect reality. Being overly sensitive to interpersonal relationships can lead to overthinking and becoming overly suspicious.
Especially when you're young, you might be easily swayed by the opinions of others. You're also easily hurt by criticism and can become exhausted by insensitive remarks.
To understand this type, it's necessary to acknowledge and appreciate their strong empathy and insight into interpersonal relationships.
Sometimes I lose track of what I'm feeling, so I need someone who will listen to me attentively.
They tend to prioritize others, which often leads to them suffering losses. A good friend would notice this and offer guidance or support.
End of quote from "Let's Look at the World from the Perspective of MBTI Personality Type Theory" (website no longer exists) (partially modified)
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Compatibility chart and advice for INFJ (Advocate = Empath) types with other types.
Ideal compatibility type pair
INFJs get along well with people with whom they can discuss future plans, ideas, and goals.
From an INFJ's perspective...
- ENFP (Reformer type)：Ne – FiWe can have a positive discussion about the possibility of positive events happening in the future.
- INFP (Psychologist type)：Fi – NeBecause they are highly empathetic and understand your feelings, talking to them makes it easier to reflect on your own thoughts and helps with self-awareness.
- ISFJ (Parental Type)：Si – FeIt is calm and soothing.
Type pairs that are prone to conflict
INFJs tend to clash with types of people who don't prioritize the whole or the group, and who don't value harmony between people.
From an INFJ's perspective...
- ESTP (Adventurer type)：Se – TiCommunication breaks down, and you naturally become vulnerable to being taken advantage of.
Romantic compatibility type pair
INFJs are most compatible in love with sincere, genuine people who can encourage them.
From an INFJ's perspective...
- ENFJ (Collaborator Type)：Fe – NiThey can think about everyone and the whole, and they can also encourage and inspire themselves.
- ENFP (Reformer type)：Ne – FiWe can think of each person as important, respect individuals, and have various discussions.
- ESTP (Adventurer type)：Se – TiThey encourage me and reassure me about my weaknesses.
- INTP (Researcher Type)：Ti – NeYou can discuss ideas and exchange information freely.
*The pairs that tend to clash and the pairs that have good romantic compatibility may overlap. This is because while people may dislike those who are the complete opposite of themselves due to disagreements, they may also be attracted to those who appear mysterious because they are different. However, it seems that these relationships often end up breaking down.
(Advice for those dating an INFJ)
INFJs have a knack for understanding others' feelings and enjoy intimate relationships. They tend to thrive in romantic relationships with people who share their values. As a partner, it's important to create an intimate atmosphere and provide the support an INFJ needs. The qualities an INFJ seeks in a partner are sincerity, honesty, and a genuine, authentic approach.
A collection of links explaining the psychological functions of the INFJ (Advocate/Empath) personality type (for those who want to understand how the mind works).
Reading the following roadmap from top to bottom will help you understand the INFJ mindset in a logical order ↓
- Roadmap – INFJ (Advocate = Empathizer) type –
- Introduction – What is MBTI?
- Summary of my personality
- Cognition is
- Type-specific cognitive characteristics
- Four personality indicators (psychological tendency axes)
- Conflicts over personality indicators
- “The meaning of the four letters "INFJ"
- First character:Introvert (type I) or extrovert (type E)
- Second character:Intuitive type (N type) or Sensing type (S type)
- Third character:Feeling type (F type) or thinking type (T type)
- 4th character:Perceiving type (P type) or Judging type (J type)
- About psychological functions (cognitive functions)
- What are psychological functions (cognitive functions)?
- The eight psychological functions (cognitive functions)
- Decision-making (judgment) function
- Information gathering (perceptual) function
- Understanding your own psychological functions (cognitive functions)
- The developmental process of psychological functions (cognitive functions)
- INFJ's psychological functions (cognitive functions)
- First function:Introverted Intuition (Ni)
- Second function:Extraverted Feeling (Fe)
- Third function:Introverted Thinking (Ti)
- Fourth function:Extroverted Sensing (Se)
- Making good use of psychological functions (cognitive functions)
- Strengths and weaknesses of INFJs
- Make the most of your strengths
- Reasons for focusing too much on the advantages
- How to improve your weaknesses
- If you are alone
- In a team setting: Have others compensate for your weaknesses (fourth function).
INFJ (Empathy Type)To truly understand this,Psychological functions (cognitive functions)* is important ↓
*Generally in cognitive science,Cognitive functions「The function by which living organisms actively collect external information, perceive and remember it, and then process it by adding reasoning and judgment in order to acquire knowledge about their subject.It is defined as "
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